Human needs explained by Tony Robbins [17]Recently, Tony Robbins has explained these needs of modern people in a much more understandable way. According to Tony Robbins, people have six basic needs:The first needs are needs of certainty – the need for safety, security, comfort, order, predictability, and control.The Second needs are needs of uncertainty or excitement. We need variety, surprise, challenges, excitement, difference, adventure, and change. People hate the boring things.The third needs are needs of connection and love. As the human being, we all need to connect with others, and we all need the love from others. The need come from communication, unified, approval, to feel connected with human beings, intimate and loved by members of the family and other human beings.Fourth needs are needs of significance. Every people like to be significant. People need to have meaning, special, pride, needed, wanted, sense of importance and worthy of love. They do all things to get and protect their significance. Most of the luxury products made to make people feel of significance.Fifth needs are needs of development. People need for constant emotional, intellectual and spiritual development. This need drives us to study more and do harder to make us develop.Sixth needs are needs of contribution, the need to give beyond ourselves, give, care, protect and serve others, to leave a legacy.What do these human needs mean?Most people have their own set of needs. With specific individuals, receiving rewards means that they receive tangible and intangible things that satisfy their needs. Receiving rewards will make people feel safe, happy, joyful, inspired and motivated; receiving rewards make people filled with happy chemicals.On the other hand, with some individuals, punishing these individuals means they will suffer the losses of tangible things or intangible things, which are the things they need to satisfy their needs. Being Punishment means bearing the losses. People perceive the actions of other people as punishments if the actions make them have the feeling of losses and the feelings of reducing their need satisfaction. Punishing make people have the feeling of reducing their certainty, their excitement, their connection and love, their significance, their development, and their contribution. These actions of punishment will make people feel unsafe, disappointed, annoyed, angry, sad, and extremely stressful. [2] [3] [4] [11] [40]At some stage of life, they have one or some needs stronger than other needs. With some groups of people, these needs are increasing. They need more and more. To satisfy these expanding needs they have to accumulate and possess thousand precious things. If outside conditions meet our needs, it means these needs are satisfied, the happy system activated, chemicals of happiness appear in brain and body make us have good feelings. As the human creature, we want to have more happy feelings. The actions of animals are to satisfy the need for survival; on the other hand, human beings act to make them have the feeling of happiness. The drive of thoughts, behaviors of human beings is feelings – the happy feelings. Collecting, accumulating, achieving, receiving, wearing only make people feel happy; they are happy when these things are satisfied with individuals’ needs. All actions are to find joy from hunting, training, studying, kickboxing, playing, beating, killing, breaking, or suicide. People have the sophisticated brain than people can imagine, with the memory, intelligence, and imagination, people do not find joy directly from the actions. They find joy in every action based on their perception of the actions. The memory and imagination make their perceptions have the private meaning. These are two kinds of joy: short-term joy and long-term joy, or short-term gain and long-term gain. All animals’ behavior is to have immediate satisfaction; they do not have the much ability to think in long term. All worthwhile achievements in the world are the result of long-term gain, the mind of human beings makes them direct the action to the long-term gain. The potential of the brain helps them accept short-term pain gracefully and joyfully on the way to accomplish worthwhile results.





Table 3: Basic symptoms of autism accompanied by other medical conditionsCore autism symptomsAssociated neurological issuesAssociated systemic issuesRelated disordersSocial deficitsSleep deficitsImmune dysfunctionSleep disordersLanguage impairmentMood disordersGI disordersMood disordersRepetitive behaviorsAnxietyAnxiety disordersHyperactivitiesAttention deficit hyperactivity disorderLack of attentionObsessive-compulsive disorderSeizuresSources: www.autismspeaks.org/what-autism/symptoms [6]The autism and other health problems in young boys and young girls are the serious side effects of excessive stress chemicals; these excessive stress chemicals come from the bearing of extreme stress in life.Infants and kids are afraid of big noises, aggressive environment, beating, shouting, unsafe environment. Most of all they are afraid of a beating, comparing with others by their angry parents. They are afraid of the activities that harm the six needs of human beings. They are so weak and fragile that they need love, connection, peaceful environment to grow. Unfortunately, in modern society, there are plenty of technology devices, which attract the attention of children and family members; it means that these devices take away the connection and love of small children. Parents lost a large amount of time to connect with their children and other members. Children do not get enough love and connection they feel uncomfortable with some symptoms of stress. If not handle well, they may be stressed and make some bad behaviors like crying, shouting, and screaming. Making bad behaviors, children may receive back the anger of their parents and adults; which may make children more hurting and stressed. Their discomfort makes their unconscious mind misinterprets many unsatisfied things as threatens from the environment. It activates the stress system in children’s bodies. Each time of stress, the stress hormones pump into the body and brain by themselves. If stress continues, it compounds into severe stress with many complications. [2] [3] [4] [11] [12]
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